YOUR MARITAL HEALTH/OWNING AND OPERATING YOUR OWN SEX CLINIC: FINDING OUT WHO’S THE MATTER WITH US – FOURTH-PERSPECTIVE SEXUAL PROBLEM TERMS
When asked about their feelings rather than their bodies, the couples taught me a diagnostic system based on the systems nature of sexual response. They taught that everyone in every marriage has sexual problems sometimes, and realizing this dynamic nature of human sexual response helped me to learn with the couples to view problems in a wellness rather than a pathology mode. There could be no “good” sex if there was no “bad” sex, just as health has no meaning without illness.
The couples also taught me that sexuality was related to all of life not just their sexual interaction or coitus. You will note that everyone of the early-perspective sex terms was based on a coital model, penetration of vagina and energy release without pain in an appropriate time frame. The following chart is based on the lessons of the spouses in the super marital sex program. Look for the area that you might like to focus on in your own therapy program.
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